Compatibility and chemistry are mostly ignored by dating advice because they’re things that can’t be faked or changed. Instead, we spend most of our time studying self-improvement, presentation, and the technical mastery of social minutiae, all in an attempt to excel at the sales job of our romantic and sexual services to possible partners. Dating advice is designed to get that person who we feel is out of our league, to somehow trick or coax or cajole them into noticing us. The girl we’ve never had before. The man we’ve fantasized about. And if that guy or girl who’s out of our league is actually not compatible with us, well, we don’t really want to hear about it. We sometimes focus so much on the “chase” or “conquer” that we don’t attend to or consider the maintenance. Not as in the maintenance of of the person, but of the relationship. What compatibility is required to keep the relationship? How do we stay together?
Let us consider the number one reason for divorce, separation, and troubles in relationships, that is finance. While most of us don’t consider this in our preparing for our “chase or conquer”. We still try to put our best foot forward, we may show what we don’t have to impress or give the appearance of be well together using “finance”. Instead of looking at the one of the most important compatibility components. Are we financially compatible with this person? Not do we make the same amount of money? No if they make it or have it can we spend it? But does their financial wherewithal, habits, goals, etc. coincide with mine? After all, finance is the leading cause of divorce, separation, etc.
“It all starts with a number” ™
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