It’s the weekend and you find yourself without a date again? What can you do to find love when you are awkward and shy? Shyness doesn’t have to prevent you from meeting your match, as long as you are willing to do things to break out of your shell. The most important point for shy men and women dating is to get them out of their heads and into the moment as much as possible. If you’re a shy person, you probably know too well that you have a tendency to think, think, think when you’re thrust into new social situations. I actually find that shy individuals are some of the most interesting and dynamic people, partly because they often have more introspective personalities. But when it comes to dating, being shy makes getting comfortable with someone new on a date very uncomfortable. The tendency among those who are shy is to focus on the negative aspects of social situations. You might think that the guy you like could never be interested in you, or that you will be tongue-tied when on a date. Focus instead on the positive possibilities in any social situation. Those who are shy often have trouble initiating conversation or being the life of the party, but there is no reason they can’t use nonverbal flirting. Online dating is a good way out for you.
May 25, 2015